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Liz C
St Leonards-on-Sea, United Kingdom

...regaining my approval

4.0 of 5 bubblesReviewed 21 Jan 2025
Decided to give this one of its many chances...it being a place I found so wonderful until many disappointments set in.

So sadly still no well behaved dogs in the restaurant/bar....unlike other restaurants I can think of. Not sure how unhelpful they are with large group bookings (they started very good but fell from grace) ...but I can report the vegan menue today before 14.00 hrs was much improved and was nearly back to its original standards....they had vegan cheese and more than one flavour of vegan icecream. Sadly the waitress thought she could not provide a vegan biscuit with my oat milk latte until I pointed out Lotus Biscoff biscuits were vegan...and I do wish the vegan salted caramel icecream was on the menue ...(personal preference so I can't mark them down for that), but nevertheless they are making imaginative fresh attempts in the vegan direction.

The bill for the two of us with a drink, 2nd course and sweet was £64 with the tip...I thought this was OK....the setting so lovely as was the decor. So I am giving it 4 stars a bit like they do at school...for effort!
Date of stay: January 2025
Trip type: Travelled with family
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Responded 25 Jan 2025
Thank you for your detailed feedback regarding your recent experience. We appreciate your loyalty and the opportunity to improve. It's wonderful to hear that you found our vegan menu to be significantly improved, with the inclusion of vegan cheese and a variety of ice cream flavours. We apologise for the oversight regarding the vegan biscuit option; we will ensure our staff are better informed moving forward.

Your feedback is invaluable as we strive to create a welcoming environment for all guests. We’re glad you enjoyed the setting and decor, and we hope to welcome you back soon for another enjoyable visit. Thank you for your support!
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Reviewed 20 January 2025

My friend and I visited the spa today and had a fantastic experience, the receptionist was lovely and super helpful, facility’s were great and very clean. The massage was also fantastic, I had a lady who I think was called Lucia, best massage I’ve ever had and super relaxing. Overall a great experience and I will be booking again in the near future.

Date of stay: January 2025
Trip type: Travelled with family
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Management Team, General Manager at The Relais Cooden Beach, responded to this reviewResponded 20 January 2025

It sounds like you had an amazing day at the spa! It's wonderful to hear that the staff, especially the receptionist and your massage therapist Lucia, contributed to such a positive experience. Clean facilities and excellent service definitely make for a memorable visit, and it's great that you're looking forward to returning soon!

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Reviewed 15 January 2025

If you have never visited this hotel before it was bought out and had the name Relais added to it you will have no idea of the wonderful treat you have missed. I came 3 times a year to stay and meet up with family and friends for over 20 years up until it was having its makeover, it was just the most wonderful place to stay, excellent food, comfortable rooms . Happy, friendly, welcoming, professional staff who interacted as a happy ,contented team, my nephews worked here during their university days, I did a charity fair here, my sister has. House on the beach here and used to entertain here often. The only thing that remains the same is the fantastic location, good parking although that may not be so if there is a wedding function, and the very annoying rear entrance door from the car park at the back that is still not automatic so you have to grapple with push chairs, luggage, walking aids arthritic hands etc to get in. Gone is the lovely reception counter with welcoming, smiling, reception staff,a couple of comfortable chairs to sit on whilst waiting to be attended to when they were busy, the cabinets full of tempting trinkets for sale, in its place is rail of hanging T shirts that resembles a washing line! Reception now is quite bizarre, a tiny claustrophobic area,2 people one standing the other on a high stall both interacting with their screens, not a flower arrangement, chair, informative leaflet or smile in site, you are expected to wait until they have finished interacting with their screens.welcoming?no, polite yes except for one blonde young woman ( Ithink she is Polish) has a definite attitude problem. This Hotel now feels like a corporate run wedding venue which they probable do well, the hotel part feels like an add on bit to bring in some extra revenue. The re jigged restaurant feels like a college dinning room, the menu is quite limited and very much planned with an eye to a very strict budget, the food is Ok , delicious it is not, hence me not staying for breakfast.The service is ok, they go through the motions but with no heart and very little knowledge, not their fault it is the way they have been trained, one gets a bit irritated with the yes Madam, Sir, no Madam, Sir, three bags full Madam, Sir routine, totally outdated and inappropriate response for this type of establishment. There was a lot of rejigging of tables and chairs going on whilst we were there having lunch too.
I stayed in the accessible room, wonderful uninterrupted sea view with a balcony, the room was very clean,crisp and warm. An excellent wet room, plenty of towels but no hook on the door to hang dressing gown or night clothes on, toiletries are of the refillable bottle type, no shelf anywhere to put your own stuff on and the toilet roll is fixed just a little bit too far to the left of you, no bin liners in the bins, not hygienic and unpleasant for housekeeping to have to deal with. Glasses have no place in a bathroom, disposable, sealed beakers, safer and more hygienic No coat hooks as you come in to hang wet coats on, there are 2 rails one underneath the other in the wardrobe so there is nowhere to hang a dress, midi or maxi skirt or full length coat etc.The tiny dressing table area also is the hospitality station, 2 mugs, 1 spoon! No electric point to plug in a hairdryer, only one chair in the room and a small round table so if there are 2 of you, order room service one of you will have to eat sitting on the bed, or worse still sip your champagne and nibbles sitting on the bed! !Absolutely nowhere to work on your laptop if you happen to have a room service tray.
All the hotel information including room service is accessed via the TV but no information in your room to tell you that , you have to get close up to the TV to read the room service menus .
It was a very cold frosty night the duvet was not quite warm enough, a spare blanket , throw or water bottle would have made a cold night much more comfortable . On the morning of my departure the exit ramp down to the car park was completely iced as was the metal hand rail and the car park, no salt or sand had been put down by 9.45 am , very dangerous.
I feel very much like a hotel inspector writing all this and unfortunately I don’t think the management will take any of it on board, they will just respond to the positive bits, it is clearly having to make stringent savings wherever it can and it shows the indoor pool has been closed, but it wasn’t that great before, I was unable to use the spa facilities as the chairs were too low for me but a lovely smell did drift out into the corridor.I feel for the staff, it certainly doesn’t feel like a happy, valued environment to be working in, a couple of the old staff are still there but totally different people under the new regime
You are paying for the location and a sea view if you book one, the rest is Ok, certainly not memorable. So very sad to write this review about what was one of my favourite hotels and such a missed opportunity not to have turned this unique, wonderful hotel Into something fabulous.

Room tip: Enjoy the location
Date of stay: January 2025
  • Trip type: Travelled with family
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Management Team, General Manager at The Relais Cooden Beach, responded to this reviewResponded 20 January 2025

Thank you for your detailed feedback and for being a loyal guest for so many years. We genuinely appreciate your memories and insights about the previous charm of the hotel. While we strive to enhance our services and facilities, we regret that your recent experience did not meet your expectations, especially regarding the reception area.

We do to take on your board your opinions which is of stark contrast to many other reviews that have embraced the change of design and while keeping many original features, Our new Spa is the final piece in the rejuvenation of the Hotel.

Your comments about the accessibility and comfort of the rooms, as well as the concerns about safety and staff training, are invaluable for our ongoing improvements.

we work towards creating a welcoming and enjoyable environment for all our guests, and we sincerely hope to welcome you back in the future to show you positive changes

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Reviewed 8 January 2025 via mobile

Fabulous. Great location on the beach. Free parking What’s not to love here. I stayed once before on the first floor. Staff are very good about helping with cases. Restaurant is yum. Sad that the swimming pool has been permanently closed. If I had endless ££ I’d like to live here 😀

Room tip: Train station and convenience store next the the hotel. It’s a plus. Regular service to Bexhill or Eastbourne and London. Wi fi is good.
Date of stay: March 2024
Trip type: Travelled on business
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Management Team, General Manager at The Relais Cooden Beach, responded to this reviewResponded 10 January 2025

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience with us!

We are absolutely delighted to hear how much you enjoyed your stay, especially our beautiful beach location, free parking, friendly staff, and delicious restaurant. We truly appreciate you mentioning that, and your previous stay on the first floor.

We understand the disappointment regarding the permanent closure of the swimming pool. However the addition of the a full facility Spa including Vitality Pool, Sauna, and Steam room and 3 Treatment rooms have been seen as upgraded amenities for our guests.

We hope this doesn't deter you from returning. Your comment about wishing you could live here is the highest praise we could hope for! We look forward to hopefully welcoming you back again soon.

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Reviewed 6 January 2025

We had booked a nice trip to the spa for my sisters 21st birthday, but unfortunately this wasn’t a very nice experience

The spa is extremely small and overcrowded. There were 4 loungers in the actual spa area, a small “pool”, a sauna that wasn’t hot and the “shower” was basically broken. Considering how small the space was, it seemed to be very overcrowded. At one point there were around 12-15 people in the spa area and there simply was not enough room to relax.

There were two guests who kept leaving the spa area in their robes and going outside for cigarettes which ruined the experience even more as came back in stinking of smoke, I was surprised this was allowed

I had booked the “changing tides” treatment and was looking forward to a massage. The therapist seemed inexperienced and I would’ve received a similar quality of massage from my partner at home. Not worth paying for at all.

Changing rooms are odd, two shower cubicles and a toilet, with the open locker space big enough to fit 2 people in comfortably before getting overcrowded.

On a more positive note, the spa receptionist was lovely and know each booking persons name which was a good touch and the food was decent.

Date of stay: January 2025
  • Trip type: Travelled with family
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Thank Chloe J
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Management Team, General Manager at The Relais Cooden Beach, responded to this reviewResponded 10 January 2025

I'm sorry to hear about your disappointing experience at the spa for your sister's 21st birthday. It sounds like the facilities were not up to the standard you were expecting, with overcrowding and issues with the cleanliness of the space. The "Changing Tides" treatment and massage you received also did not meet your expectations.

It's understandable that you would feel disappointed and frustrated after planning a special trip for your sister's birthday, only to have it not live up to your hopes.

I'm glad to hear that the spa receptionist was lovely and the food was decent. However, these positive aspects were not enough to make up for the overall negative experience.

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Reviewed 2 January 2025

The holiday menu was pretty dreadful: dull and uninspired. Who is going to order turkey on Dec 31? And do I really want a starter of smoked salmon or a parsnip soup? Everything on the menu was either easily reheated or cold; not exactly any interesting cheffing going on. Thankfully, the bar menu was reliable as usual: nothing special, but dependable fish and chips etc. Of course, wonderful view of the sea and polite staff, but I do not enjoy being asked (by Barbara) to post a review.

Date of stay: December 2024
  • Trip type: Travelled with family
    • Location
Thank Geoffrey H
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Management Team, General Manager at The Relais Cooden Beach, responded to this reviewResponded 2 January 2025

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts on the holiday menu. I’m sorry to hear that it didn’t meet your expectations.

Your feedback about offering more unique dishes is invaluable, and I’ll be sure to pass it along to the culinary team for consideration in future menus.

I appreciate your praise for the bar menu and the staff. It’s great to know that they helped provide a positive experience alongside the beautiful sea view. I also understand your feelings regarding Barbara's request for a review—sometimes, it can feel a bit awkward.

James Cornford
Food & Beverage Manager

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